School Shooting: A Cultural Shift is Needed
Today we mourn the horrible losses in the Florida school shooting while we scream with rage at the monster who did the shooting. We all want a solution and people are ranting about each of their preferred solutions. Many are demanding the elimination of all guns. Others are asserting that we must increase mental health reporting, and some are recommending the equivalent of spying on and reporting our neighbors.
This is reported to be the 18th school shooting in the USA during these first 46 days of 2018. What?!!! That is beyond outrageous! There’s a much larger problem here and it’s not just a “gun problem”. Clearly this isn’t simply a crime problem, a gun problem or even a mental health problem. It is a symptom of a deeper need, a “disturbance in the Force.” Something about our society and the way we live in this world has changed in the past few decades. We did not have these frequent atrocities in earlier generations. They happened but rarely.
One contributor to this is our universal access to media. What happens here is known everywhere within the hour. That’s not just true of the USA, it applies to Paris, China and Indonesia as well. Our world is hyper-connected, and ideas spread fast, including the worst ideas. Sick people everywhere see examples in the news and movies, and they learn new perverted ways to harm others. Lonely, desperate souls who are hurting often mimic the atrocities they’ve seen on TV.
Politicians and social activists pick up the rant and shout assertions that we need more control of people, fewer freedoms, and laws, many more laws to stop the insanity and violence. It’s hard to resist their appeal. We all feel the outrage. We’re angry, afraid and eager to do something, anything, to just make it better. The problem is that we are often willing to do substantial, irreversible things, even things we know won’t work, just in an effort to make some symbolic gesture of outrage and defiance. At times like this, we are vulnerable to making very bad decisions.
This is no time for symbolic gestures. It is the time for substantial, thoughtful and careful action. We need a course change. It’s not a time to follow one individual or to seek one universal solution.
None of us is as wise as all of us.
Without funding a whole new agency, expanding police control, or waiting for Congress to act, let’s get together and talk. We have plenty of people, agencies, offices, and tools in place already. Let’s use them more wisely.
Today let’s launch a nationwide effort to stimulate local discussions among all categories of citizens. There are plenty of meeting spaces and nobody needs to be “in charge” of this effort. So, let’s send out a wide appeal through all our media to local groups to organize for discussion. Not rants or political discussions, not “community organizing” but just communication. We all need solutions and among ourselves we can find them.
Every faction needs to be heard. Civic clubs, city councils, social clubs, neighborhoods, home owners, students, faculty, business people, government employees, sports groups…all have a voice and a stake in the outcome. Let’s listen and collaborate. Create online forums, add this to podcasts, stand up and share your thoughts. But…
Please don’t waste this opportunity by just turning it into a venting or raging rant. Scream your head off before the discussion while you’re alone with close friends; but enter into discussion with a cooperative heart.
Then let’s gather all these ideas into a collective database or small group of websites through which the world can discover ways to make ourselves better.
There will always be sick, sad and angry people among us. They will always be able to find or create a weapon: a truck, a pressure cooker, a virus, or a gun. No amount of “weapon control” can truly keep us safe. Instead, we need a culture changing solution. One that leads to more two parent families, more commitment to becoming good people, more compassion for the needy among us, more aspiration to living a meaningful life, more sense of civic responsibility and more personal desire to make the world a better place. We are smart enough to change the world. We’ve proven that in the past. Now let’s do it again.
Jim Cathcart, CSP, CPAE is a behavioral scientist and professional speaker from Thousand Oaks, California.